“I think it is important to understand how much space you take up in the world indicates to others and yourself how confident you feel.
That moment where butterflies come alive and flutter endlessly in my abdomen had arrived. The beautiful princess from one castle meets the handsome prince from a neighbouring kingdom, they marry, and wander off happily into the sunset - it's the image sold to us through thousands of rom-coms, cartoons and bridal magazines. So many people say to me in the clinic, that they don't need testing because they always use condoms...? But the gamification of modern dating is not the future, and it's not healthy. I work in the clinics and do these tests day in and day out, for my patients. In fact, it's all very well to give advice to other people, but when it happens to YOU, it suddenly feels very different.But we have 40 years of positive poly experiences and horrendous poly mistakes between us.We teach and speak globally on polyamory, relationship communication and BDSM.We’re Cunning Minx and Lusty Guy, your podcast hosts.And we’re no experts—we make relationship mistakes just like you do.